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Blueprint: How to throw a stress-free engagement party at home


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Posted 26 Sep 2024

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Emily Reed


Drinks and snacks at an engagement party at home

Don’t sweat the details. Do put a strict time limit on speeches.

Good food, good drink, good friends – at its essence, a party is a timeless combination of elements brought to life by the individual touch that hosts and guests contribute to the occasion. To help you pull off your best and most fun-filled gathering yet, our Dan’s Daily Blueprints tell you everything you need to host whatever event is next on your hit list.


Well, turns out someone liked it and did put a ring on it. Congrats! Cue the blubbering FaceTime calls to all your friends, the only selfie you’ll ever take with your hand in it, and questions – lots of questions! How’d it happen? Were there pyrotechnics involved? Did someone record the moment from a nearby bush? WHEN IS THE WEDDING?! Woah. People love love. Let’s be honest, the way you choose to celebrate the moment is entirely up to you. By all means, skip straight to the main event (tying the knot), but if an engagement party is on the agenda – and you’re thinking about hosting it at home – then we’ve got you covered with this Blueprint. Let’s get party planning, love birds!

Dress codeEngagement parties are often more relaxed than weddings and given that you’re the host, you can wear whatever you damn well please – it’s like the unspoken rule of throwing a party. Cocktail attire is the obvious choice, or simply telling people to “wear their best party outfit” is also acceptable – especially if you’re hosting at home. Given the search term “engagement party guest outfit inspiration” is up 30% on Pinterest, you know everyone will do their research and nail their looks whatever the dress code. Similar to weddings, we recommend avoiding wearing white if you can – yes, we know you’ve probably got a white sequinned jumpsuit that looks great on you, but save it for another time.
How to decorateWhether you’re hosting a garden soiree or a living room lock-in, you can’t beat a kilometre’s worth of fairy lights and those 72 tealight candles you’ve been collecting every time you go through the checkout at IKEA. In other words, no big lights. Hosting your party at home means it’s perfectly acceptable to DIY a lot of the decorations. Think cute hand-written bar signage, mismatched glass jars with flowers from your (or your neighbour’s) backyard, Polaroids strung together with twine and tiny pegs instead of regular bunting, and at least one wall covered entirely with streamers for those group photo opps (cheaper than a photo booth!).
Beers on ice at an engagement party
What to drink

1. Beers that your mates AND your Uncle Mark will love

The thing about engagement parties is they’re a melting pot of everyone you love, all there to celebrate your love. Your guestlist will consist of people in their 20s all the way up to their 90s if Grandpa copped an invite, so you need a beer that’s not only tasty but a total crowd-pleaser – with a great carton price point to boot. Nam Nam Alley Lager Can is a classic choice: crisp, refreshing and easy to sip between bites of a chicken sandwich. This lager has moreish pastry malt aromas with a medium-bodied palate – it’s easy drinking for every (adult) generation celebrating your engagement. Brick Lane’s Natural Draught is another solid choice. Made with Aussie hops and malt, it ticks all the boxes. Opting for cans at your engagement party is a good idea as it saves space in your recycling bin. And unless you plan on 'borrowing' your neighbours’, we suggest making sure at least some of your booze is canned.

2. Party-ready premixes

Hosting on a budget and don’t want to splash out on hiring a bartender to shake cocktails? Fair enough. Choose a canned variety that tastes just as good. Brookvale Union does a moreish Vodka Peach Iced Tea that can be easily decanted into a glass with some ice and perhaps even some fruit or other garnishes if you’re feeling fancy.

3. Wines worthy of a toast to the happy couple

The name of the game when it comes to choosing a sparkling wine for your event is balancing good quality with low cost. When it’s a special occasion like an engagement party, you know the bubbles will be flowing, so you want plenty of bottles on offer without burning a hole in your pocket. Our pick is Rewild Prosecco: it’s clean, affordable and expertly produced. In other words, it tastes better than it has any right to and won’t blow out your party budget.

For those who want to enjoy a glass of white sans bubbles, we love Oakridge Over The Shoulder Chardonnay: another drop that’s kind on your budget and would never dream of coming across as daggy. It’s a total crowd-pleaser. Not too big or buttery – just a chardonnay with a well-balanced acidity to keep your mum/sister-in-law/boss happy. Oakridge knows a thing or two about winning awards for quality and affordability, so it’s a no-brainer to fill your ice buckets with one of their wines.

Pouring wines to toast the couple at an engagement party
What to eatHonestly, you might only eat a little during your engagement party. Why? Because people are so damn keen to talk to you, congratulate you, snap a photo or dance with you that you’ll be flat chat. It’s a great problem to have, but don’t say we didn’t warn you – it’s a good idea to scoff something before anyone arrives. Of course, your guests will have plenty of time to snack while they chat – and if you do get a free minute, you’ll want something that’s quick ‘n’ easy. Roaming bite-sized canapes will help feed the masses: bulk mini quiches, plenty of Mum’s homemade sausage rolls, and you can never have too many chicken sangas. Remember, the more bubbles and beer your guests enjoy, the more snacky they’ll get. In addition to roaming nibbles, consider a grazing table as well – because who doesn’t love cutting a wedge of brie the size of their fist? We’re obsessed with whipped butter towers right now, layered with thinly sliced radishes. They look STUNNING and they’re dead easy to prepare.
Drinks and snacks at an engagement party at home
The formalitiesSpeeches? Entirely up to you. If getting on a mic in front of your nearest and dearest is your idea of perpetual hell, then don’t sweat it. Ask someone else to speak (we’re sure there’s a Dad who’s ready to tell a joke or two), or get your fiancé(e) to do the talking on your behalf. Remember to keep it short (less than five minutes is a good guide); the real ‘how we met’ tales will happen at the wedding. Speaking of the wedding, the engagement party speeches are essentially a dress rehearsal for the big dance, where you’ll be swapping vows in front of everyone, so you may as well get comfortable with public speaking sooner rather than later. You’ve got this.
PlaylistIf you plan on turning up the music after the formalities and having a boogie with Aunty Marg, get your hands on a portable disco light. It’s the best (non) investment you’ll ever make from the local $2 shop. As for what you play, split your music into three playlists and label them ‘Entree’ (low-fi tracks while guests arrive), ‘Mains’ (tracks to get the dancefloor kicked off à la ‘Brown Eyed Girl’ by Van Morrison) and ‘Dessert’ (straight up late-night bangers, from Sabrina Carpenter to ABBA). Hit play and walk away. And don’t tell your guests your phone passcode.
Nailing the numbersFinally, if you’re unsure where to start with deciding on a drinks menu for your party, follow the advice of Todd, Dan’s Wedding and Event Lead. He suggests having an idea of what you’d like to serve – beer, wine, cocktails or all of the above – and setting a clear budget. Here are some handy formulas if you decide to DIY it and pick up drinks from your local Dan’s. Or you can get in touch with Dan’s Events Team and they’ll crunch the numbers and organise to have the drinks delivered straight to your door. Easy!
Looking for tips for hosting another type of event? We have guides to throwing the best housewarming party and Halloween party.       
image credits: Charlie Hawks (photography), Bridget Wald (styling).